Start with a few “always” rules that are easy to remember and apply across games, school apps, and social media. The goal is to help kids pause before they click, share, or chat—and to make sure they know they can come to you without fear of getting in trouble for speaking up.
Teach kids never to share their full name, address, school name, phone number, passwords, or live location. Explain that even “small” details (team name, neighborhood landmarks, or a photo of a school badge) can be pieced together by strangers.
Make passwords long and unique, and set a family rule that passwords are not traded with friends. If a site offers it, enable two-factor authentication, and store passwords in a trusted manager rather than in notes or chats.
Kids should know that people can pretend to be someone else online. A simple rule: no private chats, no sharing photos, and no moving to another app without a parent’s OK.
Help kids use a “future me” test: Would I be okay if a teacher, coach, or grandparent saw this? Encourage them to avoid posting identifying photos, schedules, or anything they wouldn’t say face-to-face.
Teach kids to be suspicious of messages that create urgency (“you won!” “account locked!”) or ask for login codes. If something seems off, they should close it and tell an adult instead of clicking.
Make it clear that any creepy message, bullying, or inappropriate content should be reported immediately. Promise support first, consequences later—kids are more likely to speak up when they feel safe.
For more practical, family-friendly guidance, visit the full internet safety rules guide.
Use clear routines (device-free meals/bedtime), agree on daily limits ahead of time, and tie extra time to responsibilities like homework and chores. Keep rules consistent and review them together as your child’s apps and maturity change.
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